I recently dreamed I was walking over a magnificent bridge and was suddenly swept up in a tornado. Only it wasn’t violent or chaotic; it was tranquil and serene. I was engulfed in a copious amount of brilliantly-colored yellow butterflies and stunningly fragrant marigolds. Enraptured in this enthralling display of beauty, I inhaled the peace that hugged me tight, making it known, if only for a fleeting moment, that I was okay. When I awoke, I took a deep breath and smiled, longing to return to that magical embrace.
My dream reminded me of the Disney movie “Coco” — the scene where Miguel’s family lovingly prepares their ofrenda, welcoming ancestors from ages past through beloved photographs—a devoted display of loyalty and familial love.
What a beautiful picture we can implement in our own way—celebrating Día de los Muertos in our hearts, honoring the memory of loved ones who’ve passed on, and offering the reminder that they are not forgotten but always treasured and thought of.
For those unfamiliar with this time-honored tradition, there is no reason to fear. This can be a special time to talk about the origin of Día de los Muertos with your kids and see how they can get involved in setting up an ofrenda.
According to research, ofrendas often have three tiers representing heaven, earth, and the underworld. The top tier is filled with photos of loved ones and patron saints. The second tier may contain favorite foods, toys, or the deceased’s favorite drink. The bottom tier is decorated with sweet-scented marigold petals (an Aztec flower representing the dead), sugar skulls, tapers, and occasionally self-care items.
“Every ofrenda also includes the four elements: water, wind, earth, and fire. Water is left in a pitcher so the spirits can quench their thirst. Papel picado, or traditional paper banners, represent the wind. Earth is represented by food, especially bread. Candles are often left in the form of a cross to represent the cardinal directions so that the spirits can find their way.”
Traditions of Día de los Muertos can vary depending on the country. Aromatic fragrances entice the departed souls, who are typically welcomed anytime between October 30 and November 2.
What are your thoughts on celebrating Día de los Muertos? Do you see yourself honoring loved ones and sharing stories about their legacy? Comment below. I would love to know!
